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Tantric Massage

Tantric massage is the type of massage we get the most enquiries about. What is it like? What does it entail? In London, gay tantric massage has not been practiced for a very long time, and its nature is unclear to a lot of people. It’s mystical as much as it is intriguing. Here we will describe it in as much as it is possible to do so without spoiling the delightful surprise that awaits you.

The basics of tantric massage

Tantric massage rests on the belief that sexual happiness and fulfilment are directly connected to our emotional and physical well-being. This massage combines breathing rituals, visualisations, sensual body to body massage and intimate touching and holding. Your masseur will take care to observe the reactions of your body and use the psychology of massage as much as his expert touch.

The undressing ritual

All bookings of 1.5h and more include an undressing ritual. Your masseur will blindfold you and slowly disrobe you, warming your body up with his tender touch as he goes along. You will feel a brush of his skin here and there, a warm sensation of a full palm stroke and the thrill of an initial encounter with a handsome stranger. You may also touch your masseur, although we recommend to do so only minimally.

All good things take time, and at this stage the masseur will lightly tease you to further sweeten the experience that follows. The undressing ritual borrows some elements from Tie & Tease, and is designed to heighten your senses before the main event. This is also the first time your masseur makes close physical contact with you. He will use this opportunity to establish a connection that is so important in tantric body massage.

Your tantric massage begins

Your masseur will ask you to lie down, and your massage will begin in earnest. To start with, your masseur will use long, flowing strokes and effleurage (if starting with a Swedish massage) to warm your muscles and prepare them for the massage. Like all of our sensual massages, tantric body massage begins with either Swedish or Deep Tissue massage. At this point it is worth noting that you can and should expect a full body, high quality massage. Sometimes male tantric massage in London can be of questionable quality, but we work with fully trained masseurs and you are going to receive a massage that is as good for your health as it is for your heart.

Stimulating erogenous zones

Once your muscles have received a thorough treatment, the tantric part of the massage begins. You might notice the sudden heightening of tension, and the newly found intensity in your masseur’s touch that makes your skin tingle with anticipation. Tantric Massage is not all about bridging the space between mind and body. Massage of erogenous zones of the body plays an important part, so you can be sure that the masseur will leave no stretch of you unexplored. Depending on your interests, you might wish to add an additional twist to your experience (see what’s available on the Prices & Services page). Arousal is a normal and almost guaranteed reaction to such touch. The masseur will guide you to the release of tension that is as much physical as psychological.

Participant roles in male tantra

The role of the receiver in gay tantric massage (which is you) is that of complete submission. To achieve a state of bliss, you should completely surrender to your guiding masseur. As you allow him take full charge, you should let different sensations, thoughts and emotions wash over you. Tantric massage borrows from sexual therapy, yoga and bioenergetics. To experience a state of renewal through relaxation, you need only to keep your mind open and concentrate on your seductive masseur’s giving touch. However, you remain completely in control throughout the session. Your masseur will not do anything that you do not like. You are welcome to request more of a particular touch that feels good to you.

Psychological benefits of tantric body massage are achieved through the cycle of focus and letting go. Think of it as a form of meditation, where the physical and sexual complements the spiritual and psychological. For it to be effective, you have to approach the massage with an open mind. Ideally, you will have a masseur who is well matched to you, and we can help you with this. The overwhelming feeling should be of safety, explorative excitement and comfort. You might experience strong emotions during the massage, which you should not try to resist. Your masseurs touch will relax you and create a sense of safety as you watch feelings drift in and out of your consciousness. The exciting finale will see you experience a catharsis – a state of release, where you will find relief from strong and repressed emotions. As you leave your massage, you should feel as if you are walking on air.

Tantric massage is not merely an erotic massage

Often confused with regular erotic massage, tantric massage is in fact an established branch of therapeutic massage. Although it is very erotic in nature, its aims reach beyond pure arousal. In fact, arousal is merely a tool towards achieving a greater relaxation and unification of body and mind. The movements of your masseur when he performs massage are ritualistic and imbued with meaning. When training to provide this type of massage, masseurs have to master a variety of skills. They learn close observation, the system of pressure points for maintaining overall health as well as the art of turning erotic impulses into a peaceful relaxed state of mind.

Tantric massage will harmonize your sexual and spiritual energies, harnessing your natural impulses and turning them into gratification and happiness. Come and let us show you the best tantric massage that you can find in Central London. You will not look back.